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40 Gay helps gay men over 40 throughout New Zealand meet locally, from Whangarei to Dunedin. Set up a free profile, see who's nearby and say hello whenever you like. A flat white, a bike ride or a long chat over a feed of fish and chips could follow.

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How Does Online Gay Dating Work Over 40 in New Zealand?

Back in the day, meeting another gay man over 40 in a small Kiwi town could take a tip from a mate, a long drive to the city or a lot of luck. Plenty of us remember. These days you can get started from the couch, gumboots off.

On 40 Gay you jot down a few lines about yourself, add a photo or two and let other men see who you are. Whether you're in Tauranga, Nelson or Gisborne, you can keep it local or look across both islands.

Spot a guy you like? Send him a message and see where it goes. A flat white, a walk up Rangitoto or a weekend in Queenstown could follow. Why not sign up now for free and see who's online near you?

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How Does 40 Gay Work?

We've made our dating website as easy as possible to use. Just follow these simple steps...

  • Step 1

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    Sign up for your free trial dating account using our signup form above.

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    Let other single guys find you with your shiny new profile complete with your best photo.

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    Use our quick search to preview guys near you, then search by region or town once you've joined.

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    Send a message to the guys who catch your eye and reply to the ones who message you.


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Why Choose 40 Gay?

40 Gay is made for gay men over 40, so you're meeting guys who've lived a bit and know what they're after. It's a calmer alternative to the hookup apps, open to men from Northland to Southland.

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Chat on the site before sharing your number or address. If anyone seems a bit off, let the support team know.

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